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A man using an adult product, specifically an anal product or male masturbator, such as Fleshlights, is less accepted by society than a woman using an adult product, whether it’s a Layaspot vibrator or sex furniture or more. But in this article I’m going to specifically discuss men and anal sex toys.

There are 5 main categories having to do with anal sex toys where in one, most men can find a place.

1. They are open to and enjoy at least the occasional use of anal sex toys.

2. Men who’ve used anal sex toys at least once in their lives but find that it really doesn’t do anything for them.

3. They’ve never used anal sex toys but might give it a shot if there was reason to.

4. Men who find anal play to be a big turn-off, it’s dirty, and they just have no interest what-so-ever.

5. The anus is a one-way street, nothing will ever go up there, putting any sort of sex toy up there is emasculating, only women and homosexuals use anal sex toys.

OK, I’m sure there are men out there that don’t fit into any of the above categories, but those are just generalizations and work for most men. As for number 4, many men even get offended at the thought of putting anything up there. The thing that can make you gay is being sexually aroused by the idea of a sexual encounter with another man, not using anal sex toys.

OK, it won’t make me gay to use anal sex toys but my anus is very small and I think it would be very uncomfortable to put something up there.

First, the anus is packed with nerve endings, which is why so many people enjoy anal play. In fact anal play is one area where men have women beat, there is a small organ in men only, anally accessible, that is often compared to the woman’s g-spot, it’s the prostate. The nerve endings in the prostate are incredibly dense and properly stimulated they can give men a fantastic amount of pleasure.

As for its size, it’s not as small as you might think. Some pretty large items can fit up there without a problem. Although, if you’re not warmed up or are nervous the muscles will be tight and that will cause you some pain if you just start cramming large items up there.

So start small, use small anal sex toys or a finger, and as you relax and begin to enjoy it you’ll be able to use larger and larger sex toys.

Lubrication is also very important when using any sort of anal sex toy. There’s nothing more uncomfortable than anal play that doesn’t have enough lube. But make sure you never use a silicone-based lube during any type of anal play. Silicone lubricants don’t break down like water-based ones do and they’ll stay in your anus and cause discomfort or pain.

Remember to take it slowly, if you haven’t used anal sex toys before you might feel a bit nervous. Start small, take it easy and just enjoy all the new sensations that anal play brings.

The last main issue most people have with anal play is they believe it to be very dirty.

I don’t want to go into too much detail on the subject but if the proper precautions are taken anal play isn’t dirty at all. The first thing to keep in mind is that a recent bowel movement is recommended before using any anal sex toys and an anal douche is also a very good idea. The anus actually does a very good job at keeping itself clean on the inside.

Even though you’ve properly cleaned everything, you might still find it a bit dirty or might have a few more reservations about the cleanliness. If you’re using an anal sex toy go ahead and throw a condom over it or use a latex glove (careful of allergies) if using your fingers. But be careful if using a condom, you wouldn’t want it slipping off and getting stuck up there.

In conclusion, all men should at least try anal ply, either with their partner or using an anal sex toy alone, you may just find a new love!