What is the Draw to Breast Bondage?
Breast torture, also known as breast bondage or tit torture, involves the acts of tying up and/or inflicting pain on female breasts, male or female nipples and areola for sexual gratification. These acts range from the mild form to a much more extreme form. The mild typically includes light biting, pinching, clamping and/or paddling. These are taken up to the severe forms which include caning, electricity, cutting, piercing and even being hung by the breasts.
Breast torture has been employed for many many years as an actual form of torture. Many torturers used it to get confessions from women including the women admitting they were witches. But I’m not here to discuss breast torture negativily, but to talk about it in a consensual, positive, erotic light. Even the Kama Sutra, back in 300 B.C. discusses the whipping, biting and pinching of the breasts and nipples.
As in most BDSM sessions there is one dominant person and subordinate and although they both enjoy the experience they are obviously there for different reasons. Plus, the duration and intesity of any sort of BDSM varies greatly, where the limits tend to be set by the sub. Some enjoy clamps, whipping, biting, etc… and the intensity level can range all the way up to burning, scarring, cutting and more. Sub’s enjoyment tends to come from different sources, one is the feeling of being completely out of control and at the whim of the dom and the second is the pain itself, high amounts of endorphines and adrenaline are released during the session, providing the sub with a sense of euphoria. Whereas the dom gets his or her enjoyment from the act of humiliating, dominating and inflicting this sexual pain on the sub.
All five of the dom’s senses are taken advantage of when engaging in breast torture. Breasts often become dicolored and bulge when tied tighly or clamped. The dom often enjoys the feeling of the soft breasts as they are being squeezed between their fingers. They can smell the sub’s sweat or the hot wax as it’s being dripped onto the nipples. The dom can also enjoy the flavor of the sub’s sweat on the breasts and nipples. And finally the auditory sense as the dom listens to the moans and groans of the sub as her nipples as breasts are being tortured.
BDSM, including tit torture, is very heavily fantasy based, fulfilling carnal fantasies for both the dom and the sub. There are many varieties of bondage gear and objects used to fulfill the breast-oriented fantasies, including:
Nipple clamps – these are typically used on the nipple itself but can just as easily be used on any part of the breast. Nipple clamps range from fully adjustable, gentle and padded clamps to those nipple clamps with teeth or those that are made to stretch the nipple. Weights are also used, they are often attached to a chain that connects the two clamps to add extra pressure.
Flagellation toys – in addition to clamping the nipples and breasts many enjoy their breasts to be slapped in some way, common products for this are whips, canes, paddles and your own hand.
Rope – mainly used to tightly rap the base of the breast, causing some circulation restrictions, this causes the breast to turn red or even purple and bulge out.
Needles – usually used in more extreme breast bondage, needles are used to pierce the nipple, often comletely through and out the other side.
Tempurature play products – this can include ice cubes, hot wax (often used directly after the use of ice for the extreme tempurature changes that cause more intense sensations), lighters, etc…
Electrosex Toys – Electrosex toys are especially powerful and are not fitting for every person. But, if want to take your bondage play up a notch you should definitely give it a try, you may perhaps not love it but on the other hand, you might just find it intolerably pleasurable! Just don’t forget, be safe with all electro sex toys and nothing homemade, only purchase them!
Other adult products can also be used during bondage, sometimes used during light BDSM where ’sex-like’ feelings from the genetalia are desired to balance out the severe feelings from the bdsm play. Many women use vibrators or dildos, hands-free vibrators such as butterfly vibes work wonderfully, and for manyguys, using male sex toys is popular, some of the finest being Fleshlights.
BDSM is incredibly extensive in its forms and ranges from gentle to extremely painful. There are many social websites on the Internet that are dedicated to BDSM in all its forms if you’d like to learn more.
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